SHEILA GRIMES

ADDISON — Sheila Marie Grimes completed her journey home on July 11, 2025, at the age of 59. In her final moments, she was surrounded by the strength and love that defined her life.

Born the youngest daughter of Raymond “Pete” Bigelow and Shirley (Mitchell) Bigelow, Sheila faced the loss of her father at a young age. When her mother married John Collette, he became a cherished and steady presence in her life, along with four stepsiblings, who became family.

In 1988, Sheila married the love of her life, Brett Grimes. Together, they built a life rich with love, laughter, dancing, cooking, vacationing, quiet evenings, and lively celebrations with friends and family. With Brett’s unwavering support, Sheila was able to stay at home to raise their daughter full time. She had a remarkable gift for making everyday moments special for Brett and Kara — finding joy in the simple acts of daily life, leaving heartfelt notes, preparing lunches, and tending to their home with devotion.

In 2016, Sheila became a grandmother, bringing a renewed sense of purpose and joy. Her grandson, Michael, was the light of her life — the reason she fought so hard for so long. Being his Nani was the title she treasured most, and her bond with him was nothing short of extraordinary.

In 2017, after persistently advocating for herself, Sheila was diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer — a reality she met with quiet strength and fierce resistance.

In her final days, Sheila was surrounded by a few deeply trusted loved ones, including longtime family friend Beth Jackman. We remain deeply grateful for Beth’s comfort, strength, and wisdom during this time — qualities that mirrored the calm and grace Sheila herself carried throughout her life.

Sheila’s unwavering grace, strength, and care were a steady presence to all who knew her.

Sheila is survived by her husband, Brett Grimes; her daughter, Kara Marszalkowski; her son-in-law, Adam; and her grandson, Michael. She is also survived by her sisters, Linda Kittredge (Mike), Kally Langlais, and Lori Moulton (Lee); her stepsiblings, Bridget Kipp (John), Michael Collette, Dennis Collette, and Darren Collette; her mother-in-law, Thelma Grimes; her siblings-in-law, Donald Grimes Jr. (Kay), Robin Epperson (Chip), and Vaughn Grimes; and many wonderful nieces, nephews, and cousins.

She was predeceased by her father, Raymond Bigelow; her mother, Shirley (Mitchell) Collette; her beloved father figure, John Collette; her niece, Jennifer Moulton; and her father-in-law, Donald Grimes Sr.

Honoring Sheila’s wishes, there will be no formal celebration. In lieu of flowers, donations are encouraged to be sent to Addison County Home Health and Hospice, Inc. at PO Box 754, Middlebury, VT 05753, or online at www.achhh.org.

In Sheila’s memory, may we reach out to those we care for, with purpose — to listen attentively and provide support that comes from selfless care rather than personal fulfillment.◊